Resources & Tools

Free tools, guides, and downloads to support your BDSM journey.

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BDSM Negotiation Checklist

ChecklistsSafetySkills

A comprehensive checklist to help partners discuss preferences, boundaries, and expectations before engaging in power exchange.

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Dominant's Journal Prompts

WorkbooksPromptsSkills

Thirty thoughtful prompts to help dominants reflect on their role, responsibilities, and growth areas.

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Aftercare Guide for Dominants

SafetySkillsTemplates

A practical guide to providing effective aftercare, with specific techniques and approaches for different situations.

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Power Exchange Relationship Contract Template

TemplatesSafety

A customizable template for creating a D/s relationship agreement that covers expectations, protocols, and boundaries.

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Emotional Intelligence for Dominants

WorkbooksSkills

A workbook designed to help dominants develop greater emotional awareness and regulation skills.

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BDSM Safety Protocols

SafetyChecklists

Essential safety information for physical play, including emergency procedures and risk mitigation strategies.

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Scene Planning Worksheet

ChecklistsScenesTemplates

A detailed worksheet for planning BDSM scenes, including preparation, execution, and aftercare considerations.

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Communication Skills for Power Exchange

SkillsPrompts

Advanced communication techniques specifically designed for navigating the complexities of D/s relationships.

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